How To Feel Good Enough

When I ran track in middle school, my coach told me… “Imagine there’s a big dog chasing you.” That DID motivate me to run faster (especially since I had been attacked by a dog a few years earlier). For high achieving men, the “dog” motivating them to “run faster” is often the feeling of not being good enough. They reach for higher and higher levels of financial and professional success, hoping to finally feel they have “arrived.” And this strategy DOES work to achieve high levels of...